tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post1290839783129832888..comments2024-03-27T18:48:10.583-04:00Comments on Soberbia: Forever. That's a Mighty Long Time.amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04611431855409976777noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-27256689836710724082019-12-28T08:07:26.401-05:002019-12-28T08:07:26.401-05:00jordan shoes
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I think I have but then I find myself thinking, maybe just one, sometime down the road, not now, not today but someday, maybe. It's time to be done with that because someday I may actually say, "Today's the day." Yep, never forever sounds pretty good.Kary Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12674442468925628974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-71257995702235219922013-09-16T15:31:13.493-04:002013-09-16T15:31:13.493-04:00I really like the way you think! WOW! Forever is ...I really like the way you think! WOW! Forever is easier huh?<br />(I did get past the one day at a time thing.... Forever sure does seem RIGHT!) I loved how you said, you cant be trusted to make good decisions about booze... I think you just made a GREAT ONE!<br />Thanks for sharing.... I will be following!<br />BB<br />Francinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03183149104103774663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-3364499647927473912013-09-12T18:53:13.482-04:002013-09-12T18:53:13.482-04:00I do forever backwards when I'm having a shitt...I do forever backwards when I'm having a shitty day. As in, "This shitty day is not forever."<br /><br />But because I am sober forever I can believe that the shitty days won't last forever. <br /><br />amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05121059866790215726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-6356304505565636352013-09-12T10:27:40.236-04:002013-09-12T10:27:40.236-04:00"Forever makes me safe." This is exactly..."Forever makes me safe." This is exactly why one-day-at-a-time makes me nervous. When I hear others say "well I don't know if I'll be able to keep up not-drinking forever, but for now it feels right" I feel threatened. Why go to all the trouble and do this really (sometimes) hard thing to make a better life for ourselves and those we love if we don't intend to keep at it? I guess I take it too seriously, but yes, forever works for me too. <br /><br />Someone made a comment the other day to the effect that removing the option of drinking forever just makes everything else easier, more simple, I guess. <br /><br />The one-day-at-a-time sentiment helps me, though, when I'm trying to get through a particularly shitty day. Then I remind myself I only have to worry about today. But it's more about stress and less about drinking. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-41559227280795207662013-09-12T06:38:29.132-04:002013-09-12T06:38:29.132-04:00You're welcome! And thanks for being willing t...You're welcome! And thanks for being willing to look at forever with me. :) amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05121059866790215726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-60627142769186711232013-09-12T06:37:14.916-04:002013-09-12T06:37:14.916-04:00Dude, our lunch is going to be epic. And maybe tur...Dude, our lunch is going to be epic. And maybe turn into dinner. ;)<br /><br />Forever can seem like trying to eat the whale in one gulp. But, I don't have to worry about tomorrow. It will get here and I won't drink. Period. So now I can worry about how big my butt is. ;) Lol. <br /><br />I feel like the forever thing might be hard at first (what? never drink again???) but that it made it easier for me to succeed since drinking again was not an option. Ever.<br /><br />Namaste :)<br />amy<br /><br />amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05121059866790215726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-26031959826958765572013-09-12T06:31:39.352-04:002013-09-12T06:31:39.352-04:00Thank you! Thank you! amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05121059866790215726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-9107907810884333392013-09-11T20:20:36.864-04:002013-09-11T20:20:36.864-04:00Well, I am one day at a time here, but I love your...Well, I am one day at a time here, but I love your post! I can totally see why it works for you and deep down I know it's forever for me too! But in the beginning i was relapsing so much, I just couldn't deal with forever! I think it was because I still had reservations. But my last drunk I remember thinking, that this was it and I was done forever! Very cool! Thanks! Sober Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317131703499340784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-22726762555197472152013-09-11T14:20:11.517-04:002013-09-11T14:20:11.517-04:00I really can't wait till our lunch. We are so...I really can't wait till our lunch. We are so much alike.<br /><br />I've written about this often. The fact that I NEED forever. Nothing else will work. That's the only way the bitch that lives in my head will shut up and the beast will sleep. If I think, "well maybe when...", then they both wake up and start tap dancing on my last nerve and then it's a struggle to have to shut them up again.<br /><br />Nope. For me it's forever. I do recommend to the newly sober that if they are struggling, thinking of one day at a time or, "I won't drink today and I'll worry about tomorrow when it gets here" can be helpful to get you through the bad times. But that never happened for me. When I went through the bad times I'd just grit my teeth and dig in further because I knew that one day it would be easier and once I got there, I'd never want to go back.<br /><br />Forever is a lovely word to me. It means peace.<br /><br />SherrySoberMomWriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04845259535764391849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8136268241054850544.post-6613317152026319122013-09-11T08:10:36.307-04:002013-09-11T08:10:36.307-04:00It seems like the "one day at a time" th...It seems like the "one day at a time" thing is really ingrained in our world as the way to stay sober. But I like your approach. Most people don't talk about it that way. Of course the only way to get there is one day at a time. Our actions are one day at a time but what we know is that it is a commitment forever, that it must be, and that the door can never be open to anything else. Every time I learn about someone else's approach to sobriety that isn't "hi my name is ______, and I'm an alcoholic" it feels refreshing to me and like I want to join in. Love your posts.christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03132347021321965474noreply@blogger.com